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HOLISTIC
PSYCHOTHERAPY
FOR
NATURAL WELL-BEING AND HAPPINESS
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WELCOME !
Natural psychotherapy
developed by New York Drs. Eric and Miriam Riss is a mind-freeing therapy for
positive self-empowerment and self-growth.
It is a drug-free
alternative treatment for all ages that is effective for
personal, relationship, and mental illness
issues - from the simplest to the most complex and severe.
Natural psychotherapy is
thoroughly practical and solution-oriented.
This creative, holistic
therapy aims at lasting mental health;
it does not
use damaging psychiatric labeling, drugging, or any of the negative ideas and
risky practices of
psychiatry.
Instead, one learns important
stress management and anger management skills. One acquires specific methods to
lessen anxiety and achieve greater
self-understanding and balance. (See FAQ #
5 below)
In this comprehensive and medication-free therapy each
person learns constructive methods to solve her or his psychological problems.
Natural methods that put an end to one's emotional distress,
depression and fears. Natural, holistic ways that lead to a
much better life!
CLICK HERE for CONTACT INFORMATION and start on a
natural road to a
more flourishing
life!
Find out how, in this complex world of so much
uncertainty, suffering and pain you can attain and maintain well-being.
And find out how you can help those you love and care about
also
achieve greater happiness.
And above all, find out how you can
clarify where you are in
life, where you want to go, and how you can
actually get there!
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New York City
Office
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Appointment Only)
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Prescriptions for
Constructive Change
*let
the truth make you free* *be kind* *be loving*
*be constructive*
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FAQ - FREQUENTLY ASKED
QUESTIONS:
1.
Which
problems and issues does natural therapy help resolve and how
does it accomplish that?
2. In what specific ways is natural
psychotherapy mind-freeing and self-empowering?
3.
How does a natural treatment differ from a psychiatric
one?
4.
What are
the main aims of natural psychotherapy?
5. *How does natural
therapy actually work? 6.
How are medical problems
dealt with constructively in a natural therapy approach?
7.
How are chemical imbalances regarded in relation to life problems?
8.
How
does natural psychotherapy view mind-altering drugs?
9.
What if one has become habituated to mind-altering drugs?
10.
What are some specific benefits of natural
psychotherapy?
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Answers to FAQ: 1-10
1.WHAT
TYPES OF
PROBLEMS AND ISSUES DOES THIS ALTERNATIVE NATURAL THERAPY HELP RESOLVE?
1 A - The issues natural therapy helps resolve:
If you are feeling
excessively depressed, anxious, angry or emotionally overwhelmed, natural
therapy's solution-oriented holistic treatment can be of definite help.
As the
list below illustrates, natural therapy is an alternative treatment that can help with
problems such as anxiety and poor
communication, as well as with more complex ones such as
panic,
bipolar disturbances, depression and
schizophrenia.
Thus, natural
therapy
and counseling
enable you to attain self-understanding and long-term
constructive solutions by means of the following:
- holistic, natural treatment and in-depth
alternative therapy for any issue of mental illness or
emotional crisis
- in-depth, holistic and natural treatment
for depression - mild, moderate, or severe
depression; recurrent
depression, seasonal depression, or major clinical depression
- comprehensive holistic therapy and
coaching for positive and lasting resolution of couples problems and marital and
family issues, anger management, sex therapy for sexual addiction problems,
sex coaching and sex counseling for ways to increase love, intimacy,
erotic excitement, spiritual closeness, honesty, commitment, responsibility, trust,
and joyful interaction
- in-depth holistic
treatment of fears, anxiety, depression, panic, fear of panic, confusion,
conflict and guilt issues for people of all ages -
children, adolescents, young adults, adults, seniors, and the
elderly
- therapy for personal, spiritual, situational
and financial stresses and difficulties
- comprehensive learning
of positive communication and
relationship patterns
- natural treatment of bipolar patterns,
general
mood-swings, seasonal
depression and mood-swings
- focus on learning positive ways toward self-empowerment, self-fulfillment,
self-confidence and self-reliance
- learning to deal constructively with issues of personal
identity, independence, self definition and self actualization by
means of role-playing and creative educational approaches
- holistic guidance,
constructive role-playing and learning comprehensive ways to
bring more
joy and purpose into one's relationships and into one's life
in general
- natural treatment for attention deficit, ADHD,
impulsiveness and
hyperactivity
patterns
- in-depth and holistic
treatment for posttraumatic stress
and current stress reactions related to
experiences and situations of pain, suffering, abuse (abuse and
trauma in
one's early or later family life while growing up, general
other abuse, emotional abuse, physical abuse, sexual abuse,
etc.), exploitation, cruelty, injustice, financial hardships
and financial crises, poverty, hunger,
starvation, deceptions, oppression, serious accident,
disease, natural and other disasters, terror, crime, war,
bombings, kidnapping, torture, mutilation, and other
trauma or horrors of life
- holistic therapy,
counseling and coaching for feelings
of psychological distress,
hopelessness, self-doubt,
insecurity,
fear,
despair
- psycho-social and natural treatments for postpartum depression and postpartum panic reactions
- comprehensive holistic guidance,
role-playing, and educational counseling for parenting, child development
issues and issues of child confidence, child competence, and
child happiness
- natural therapy and holistic role-playing
for excessive
fault-finding and habits of blaming and being impatient
with oneself and others
- learning how to balance creativity,
work and
career issues
with one's spiritual well-being and personal happiness
- natural therapy for difficulties in concentration,
organization and focus
- natural therapy for impulsive behavior and actions
- constructive natural treatment and
therapy for burnout and exhaustion; for taking on too
much or putting oneself last
- natural therapy, coaching and workable
solutions for outbursts of temper, reactions of anger and
rage and especially for lack of
effective anger management
- holistic and
comprehensive natural treatment for reactions of spiritual emptiness,
alienation,
loneliness, boredom,
withdrawal
- natural therapies for chronic fatigue,
immune, allergic and somatic reactions
- holistic and in-depth
natural therapy for panic attacks: mild,
moderate or severe panic reactions and
patterns
- natural therapy and holistic counseling for reactions of grief, as well as
for complicated grief and unremitting grief and feeling of
hopelessness and despair
- comprehensive natural treatment for obsessive and compulsive reactions
and patterns, OCD
- intensive psycho-social
and in-depth natural treatments for psychotic reactions and patterns
- intensive, alternative, psychosocial natural,
in-depth treatment for schizophrenia and all
types of schizophrenic
and paranoid
reactions and issues
- holistic and psychosocial in-depth
alternative natural
treatments for current reactions or long-term patterns of delusions
or hallucinations
- comprehensive and in-depth
holistic and psycho-social therapy for drug addiction and
alcoholism patterns and reactions
- constructive holistic
treatment for eating and weight
problems, anorexia, bulimia, binge eating
responses,
obesity, weight
preoccupation and patterns of unhealthy or
damaging food intake habits
- holistic coaching and therapy for lacks in overall, comprehensive
well-being - physically, emotionally and spiritually
- natural sex therapy and holistic
sex coaching and sex counseling for issues of sexual satisfaction,
"too little" or "too much" sex and erotic excitement,
sexual addictions, paraphilias, compulsive, offensive, or
antisocial sexual
behavior and the varieties of sex problems people have
- in -depth coaching and
natural therapy for love,
love-hate and intimacy and anger issues
- in-depth natural
treatment and therapy for altered states, confusions of identity,
and dissociation
responses
- natural therapy, holistic role-playing
and educational coaching for toxic and harmful interpersonal relationships,
such as abuse, deception, exploitation etc.
- holistic counseling, treatment and
intensive, creative role-playing for passivity and passive-aggressive reactions
- learning to deal constructively,
positively and creatively with problems arising out of conscious and
unconscious self-defeating, harmful and destructive
life-styles
- comprehensive therapy and very practical
guidance for family relationship issues
involving troubling and upsetting past,
present and possible future family interactions
- in-depth treatment, creative role playing,
very practical guidance and the learning of original, bold
psycho-social techniques to deal constructively with generalized feelings of
inadequacy, inferiority and
powerlessness or "delusions of inadequacy" related to
negative, unloving, disrespectful and abusive treatment in
the present and in the past, by
parents and other family members, peers, friends, the school system,
work environment, and/or one's culture or society
- natural symbolic
clarification and insight therapy for nightmares
- natural therapy and
holistic coaching for sleep problems, sleep
disorders, occasional
insomnia, chronic insomnia, sleep deprivation, early awakening
- natural therapy and
constructive holistic guidance for digestive problems
and irritable bowel responses
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1 B - How natural
therapy resolves the issues listed:
As this evidence-based
alternative Web site will show you,
every
issue or problem listed above, actually is not - as
psychiatry claims -
a mental illness or
mental disorder.
Rather, they are all very real
psychosocial problems, but not "psychiatric disorders" or
"mental diseases."
As Thomas Szasz M.D., demonstrated long
ago, the idea of mental illness is a myth.
Depression is
not a medical disease. Anxiety is not a medical
disease, a bipolar pattern is not, schizophrenia is
not, nor are any of the
other problems and issues listed.
Rather, what the
scientific evidence shows is that each listed issue is
a problem in living - an understandable (though sometimes self-defeating) natural
bio-psycho-social and spiritual reaction
to a problematic, painful, depressing or emotion-arousing situation.
YES, your problems and issues
are learned emotional reactions, but not
permanent conditions.
YES, the so-called mental
illnesses are all psychological reactions and
emotional difficulties which you can
modify by means of this holistic, alternative therapy.
NO, your problems in life
are not permanent
biological, medical illnesses or medical conditions.
As you will see on this
Web-site, your problems (no matter how severe) are not conditions for which you "need" to be drugged,
electro shocked, or worse.
In sharp contrast with
psychiatric drugging or electro-shocking or magnetic tinkering
for the so-called psychiatric treatment of mental illness,
the focus of this alternative, natural
and positive treatment is
always on
self-understanding and the constructive resolution
of personal and
relationship
issues.
In natural therapy you learn, specifically, how
to
find your self and how to achieve
well-being and happiness by alternative, natural means.
Natural therapy is a way to
search for, to find, and to maintain a state of natural
happiness and natural well-being - on a regular basis!
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If you want more specific clarification, please go to READINGS AND REFERENCES
Carefully examine the strong evidence behind the
questioning of the prevalent psychiatric treatment of so
called mental illness presented by Mary
Boyle, Ph.D., Paula
Caplan, Ph.D., Peter Breggin, M.D., Grace Jackson, M.D., Lucy Johnstone,
Ph.D., B.P.Karon, Ph.D., Lauren Mosher, M.D., Thomas Szasz, M.D.,
Robert Whitaker and others.
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And most
important: The incontrovertible
hard scientific fact is that
not one of the problematic
reactions listed is a permanent "mental illnesses"!
The facts
actually show that all the troubling aspects of
a so-called mental illness are learned patterns and behaviors
rather than physical genetic illnesses.
They
were learned and they can all be unlearned!
The so-called
mental illnesses are all transitional reactions to stress and
they can all respond well to a solution-oriented, straightforward, natural psychotherapy
and treatment.
These reactions and
experiences of emotional distress require
exactly what natural therapy and counseling offer: a new perspective, and a new
in-depth understanding of oneself, one's relationships and one's situation.
1 C - What
natural therapy can do for you:
Natural,
no-drugs therapy
can show you specific ways to make constructive changes
in your life.
You are enabled
to relieve your pain
and suffering by learning
alternative, creative and new ways to resolve general or specific
psychological, social,
spiritual and
biosocial
issues and problems.
How?
First, by helping you challenge your negative assumptions and negative ways of
thinking about yourself or your problems.
You practice the
actual daily giving up of numbing negativism and
paralyzing pessimism. You learn how to rid yourself of any
delusions of inadequacy from which you may
have suffered.
Second, as
you give up your habits of negativism and pessimism,
you learn how to tap into your inborn, natural
creative abilities to heal and change for the
better.
And, most important, no matter how bad your past was, nor what
your age is today, natural therapy can now start to
enable you to use and to experience the strengths and the creativeness of your
real self!
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And how is
that accomplished in natural psychotherapy?
This is done by
means of comprehensive, eclectic, integrative
psychological treatments that include:
cognitive, psychodynamic, bio-social, eco-psychological, Zen
Buddhist, and humanistic concepts and practices.
And in addition,
in natural therapy there is an emphasis on a variety of positive,
alternative, natural treatments that may be especially helpful
for one's issues and problems.
These
natural and positive treatments include: relaxation therapy,
stress management, anger management, focused breathing,
financial planning and financial management, physical exercises, natural hypnotherapy,
nutritional guidance and positive life-style changes.
Each of these is always
useful in one's quest for comprehensive health and well-being.
In fact, these
natural, holistic and positive psychological ways can increase and promote the body's
natural abilities to heal neurological, circulatory,
endocrine, musculoskeletal and other body systems.
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1 D - What
is a NATURAL approach?
By means of natural therapy one can discover when and how it is
actually possible (and when it's not possible) to use the positive
psychology of a natural approach.
And what
specifically is a NATURAL AND HOLISTIC POSITIVE THERAPY APPROACH ?
A NATURAL
HOLISTIC APPROACH is an approach of living in accordance with nature and
"reality,"
without falseness and artifice, consistently focused on in-depth
understanding of what is going on in your situation in life.
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1 E
- How to become free and self-empowered:
By gaining in-depth understanding of
your self and your situation you
can learn to become free
to get on - and stay on - roads of self-discovery and
positive change!
You learn how to become free
and how to stay free to be responsible for the choices you make.
You realize how
you can empower yourself to actually choose to
make positive or negative choices.
Your start to realize through
natural therapy, that it is you, in the end, who can learn how to
shape your life and to choose the roads on which you want to
travel.
You find out how,
specifically, you can choose the roads that actually lead to
self-realization and the freedom to be your authentic self !
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2. IN WHAT SPECIFIC WAYS IS NATURAL
PSYCHOTHERAPY MIND-FREEING AND SELF-EMPOWERING?
2a.
In
natural therapy and counseling you can learn how take a variety of roads
that lead to self-empowerment and freedom to become true to
your unique self.
These
natural roads to freedom
can
take you from a life of emotional distress, depression and anxiety
to an authentic,
self-assertive and productive life of well-being and joy.
And along these roads and ways, you
learn how to find, value and
cherish your uniqueness and your unique ways of interacting
with and benefiting from the natural world!
You
learn how to actually attain a greater degree of general well-being
and happiness.
You learn to attain a kind
of excellence!
As Aristotle so clearly
said it:
"Excellence is an art
won by training and habituation. We do not act rightly
because we have virtue or excellence, but we rather have
those because we have acted rightly. We are what we
repeatedly do. Excellence, then is not an act but a habit."
And in natural therapy one
learns that the habit of excellence can indeed be
acquired. One comes to see that excellence is nothing more and
nothing less
than the habit of being truly alive!
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In the words of
Howard Thurman,
"Ask yourself what makes you come alive, and
go do that, because what the world needs is people who have come alive."
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Please
click here for
CONTACT INFORMATION and find out how natural therapy can help you
"come alive."
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2 b.
THE SPECIFIC GOALS OF FREEDOM, AWARENESS and CREATIVE SOLUTIONS:
In this holistic, gentle and truth-seeking
talk-therapy and positive action-therapy, you
learn to free you mind from stress by developing the
freedom to examine your problems, issues and goals in life in
alternative and creative new ways.
And, at the same time, you start to practice to put your new insights into actual positive and
constructive actions.
You develop the ability to free yourself from stress by freeing yourself from
paralyzing inhibitions, negative attitudes, emotional
impulsiveness, self-destructive
behavior patterns, and conscious as well as unconscious
self-defeating actions and reactions.
You learn how to
become more aware of yourself, your current situation and
your past. As a result, you start to understand yourself
better and integrate your thoughts,
feelings and actions in constructive and realistic ways.
You get to be more awake to reality!
You become free to see
how your real problems in life - even those which produce severe
emotional pain - can be treated constructively
and creatively.
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2 c.
The SEVEN STEPS TO BECOMING MORE AWAKE
TO REALITY:
First, you gain positive,
creative and constructive insights.
Second, you acquire
and develop abilities to perform positive acts based on these
insights.
Third, you gain the power to free
your mind from mind-altering medications or street drugs.
Fourth, you practice
to free yourself from
an array of distractions and ways
you may have acquired to "block out" reality.
Fifth, You learn to focus on practical plans to
do something positive and constructive for
yourself every day.
Sixth, you start to focus on the
here and now: not on guilt or regret over a past that
cannot be changed, and not on worry about a future
that is always unknown.
Seventh, you practice, practice
and practice the
skill you have acquired of giving up blame and
performing
positive, alternative, constructive actions on a daily basis - 24/7.
And as you move away from practicing blame (of
yourself and others) you start to feel the freedom of being truly in the
constructive realm of choosing - and working for - a life that
is truly good for you.
And significantly, during this seven step process you
gradually acquire the power to free yourself from
the damaging influences of irresponsible, negative, harmful people, and
especially from the propaganda of critical, fault-finding family
members, "friends" "authorities" and "experts." (
See:
FREEDOM AND THE GOOD LIFE
)
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2d.
And at the same time, you
acquire skills in interpersonal relations that can free
you from negative and destructive ways of relating to yourself,
to others and to society.
It becomes especially
gratifying in natural therapy to learn how to free
yourself from the negative ways of life you may have learned!
You learn creative
new ways to free yourself
from impulsive outbursts of anger or rage, passive-aggressive
patterns, unethical or harmful behaviors, automatic tendencies of withdrawal into depressing
passivity, paralyzing fearfulness, or self-defeating
unassertiveness.
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2e.
In natural therapy
and counseling you can
learn how to
free yourself from ever being a victim of toxic
relationships
with others.
You learn to free yourself from becoming a
victim of destructive or irresponsible actions, toward yourself
or toward others, that you yourself may have acquired.
Your learn
how to acquire the power to shape your life constructively!
To truly become
free to be yourself, your unique self, you
learn how to regularly emancipate yourself from false ideas, from
ignorance, damaging preconceptions and prejudices,
superstitions, obfuscations, lies, unnecessary fears and
unresolved (but resolvable) conflicts and ways of inhibiting
yourself.
That may certainly feel like a tall assignment,
but it gets easier and easier once you get started.
You
start to welcome the truth and to appreciate that indeed the
truth does make you free.
You discover the benefits of focusing on the
practice
of truth-seeking, self-emancipation and creative self-realization
on a regular (24/7) basis.
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2f.
In natural psychotherapy you
find out how to free yourself to discover and use your inner strengths and powers to actively shape your life in
positive ways.
You practice
shaping your life in ways which really make sense to you,
which fit your sense of ethics, your personal
sense of right and wrong, and which you truly desire and
truly value.
You become open and willing to actually choose alternative, new, original and creative
ways to attain your goals and values.
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2g.
You learn how to
exercise your capacity to choose, plan for, and actually bring
about (what you consider to be) an over-all responsible, fulfilling and
truly productive way of life.
As a
result of living a productive, responsible and fulfilling lifestyle
you don't feel "tired," '"fatigued, or "hopeless."
Rather, to
your surprise, you start to
develop a much happier and emotionally exciting life for
yourself and others.
You start - and continue - to
experience the "natural highs" of comprehensive creative well-being!
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3.
HOW DOES A
NATURAL VIEW DIFFER FROM A PSYCHIATRIC ONE?
3a) Natural therapy is an alternative therapy that
does not approach psychological problems as medical illnesses.
Natural psychotherapy is
a comprehensive and effective alternative
treatment for both, psychiatric theory and practice as carried out by the average biologically oriented
psychiatrist today.
Natural psychotherapy is,
in fact,
one of a growing number of creative, constructive and positive psychosocial
treatments that have completely and successfully resisted the medicalization of psychotherapy.
In fact,
natural therapy has successfully avoided all current
attempts of biological psychiatry to practice "mind control"
masquerading under the name of "psychiatric treatment" or
"medical treatment of mental illness."
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HOW NATURAL PSYCHOTHERAPY
SUCCESSFULLY AVOIDS PSYCHIATRIC TREATMENT
Natural
psychotherapy is a therapy of no psychiatric theory and
practice, no psychiatric labeling and none of psychiatry's risky
treatments:
No psychiatric
drugs, no ECT
(electro-convulsive shock therapy), no surgical body implants, no surgical brain implants, no magnetic
interferences with your brain, no
neurological and brain surgery, no laser brain surgery and no forced psychiatric
incarceration, falsely called
"psychiatric treatment."
What natural psychotherapy offers
instead of psychiatric treatment, is an
effective "psychological, creative talk and problem-solving
therapy."
Natural therapy is a treatment that is completely focused on the choice of positive actions and on positive results
that last.
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3b) In natural therapy one
learns how to free oneself completely from the
mistaken psychiatric idea
that there is something biologically wrong with people who
have psychological problems or who behave in ways which others find
not acceptable.
In this holistic and
completely positive treatment one learns
that distressing and troubling psychological reactions or
socially unacceptable behaviors are
not the
results of a mythical, non-existing brain disorder, chemical imbalance
or mental disease.
As one makes progress in
natural therapy one gets
to see clearly that one's emotionally upsetting and disturbing
experiences are really transitional emotionally charged reactions to problems in
living or to self-defeating and damaging life views.
*Again, please see the
strong evidence supporting this view presented by
Mary Boyle, Ph.D., Paula
Caplan, Ph.D., Peter Breggin, M.D., Grace Jackson, M.D., Lucy Johnstone,
Ph.D., B.P.Karon, Ph.D., Lauren Mosher, M.D., Thomas Szasz, M.D.,
and Robert Whitaker
by clicking READINGS AND REFERENCES!
Of course, actual neurological,
physical, organic, medical problems that should be medically treated do exist.
And they should be diagnosed and treated with competent,
compassionate and suitable medical methods. But these
are not what modern psychiatry refers to in its mistaken view of
labeling social, psychological, and spiritual problems as
"mental disorders."
Real medical
conditions can, of course, actually be verified by physical,
neurological, physiological, and laboratory tests and then
treated and hopefully cured by appropriate medical procedures. Such
verification is not possible, for what psychiatrists label mental illness.
The so-called mental illnesses are
not real medical
conditions.
They are: bio-psycho-social and spiritual crises
that can be resolved by appropriate psychological methods.
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The fact is that
none of psychiatry's so called mental illnesses can
be verified as biological diseases by means of any scientifically and medically valid procedures.
There exist no blood tests, no x-rays, no lab-tests, no physical
examinations to do this!
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3c) Too many psychiatrists miss the
simple and obvious fact that human beings do indeed have
psychosocial problems and issues that
result in biological
disturbances, but are not caused by biological disturbances.
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Each person is an ever-changing and
ever-growing
being who has complex feelings, thoughts and values, and who lives in
complex human situations and interactions.
And it is within these complex
human bio-psycho-social situations that these problems (whether called
depression, schizophrenia, etc.) have their origin and
maintain their current existence.
One always needs to look
carefully and compassionately at the
whole context of someone's psychological,
spiritual and social situation
before trying to "help" in any way.
Natural
therapy should, in fact be more accurately called
wholistic or holistic, since it always
considers the whole context and all the complexities of
one's situation, experiences and goals. That is the kind of respect and
realistic, truly scientific, understanding that a troubled or upset person
always needs!
What a trouble person does
not
need is to have her or his brain or body chemistry tinkered
with or assaulted by the reductive and mistaken theories and
harmful practices of current psychiatry.
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3d) The Psychiatric View is Reductive and Pathologizing:
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Natural therapy regards
most of psychiatry's ideas and procedures of treating "mental illness"
as scientifically unsound, logically flawed, therapeutically harmful and
morally bankrupt.
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Therefore, the natural therapist does not
ever resort to psychiatry's ways of "treating mental illness," to the usual
psychiatric, unscientific, immoral, and pathologizing ways of regarding
and treating distressed and emotionally troubled people.
Instead, natural
therapy, treats everyone with respect.
Troubled people are seen, and learn to see themselves,
as what they really are: basically healthy but often perplexed, frightened, or troubled human beings caught up in transitional or
long-standing emotional situations of suffering - situations and contexts that need
to be understood and dealt with constructively - not
masked or hidden by psychiatric drugs.
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In this
effective, evidence-based
holistic alternative to the
disempowering methods of psychiatry, people get to realize the
following:
One just
does not need to get endlessly, and too often forcefully and
brutally, labeled, drugged, electro-shocked, get devices
implanted into one's brain and body, get a variety of risky "patches," get the vagus nerve electrically stimulated,
be given magnetic brain stimulations, or
be subjected to destruction of vast numbers of brain cells by means of
lobotomies, brain implants or laser brain surgery. Especially since safe,
constructive and self-empowering natural methods are available,
and have been proven to work.
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In natural therapy people
get to understand why the methods of biological psychiatry are
not only inhumane, but are also
unnecessary, outdated, and can be seriously damaging.
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3e) A Psychosocial
Empowering Perspective Rather than a Psychiatric
Disabling One:
Besides making those who
are emotionally stressed feel even more disabled, helpless and hopeless, current
psychiatric practices too often are downright damaging!
Too often people undergoing such thoroughly inhumane "treatments" are disabled for life.
3f) Why Upset and Troubled People are
Never Classified With
Psychiatric Labels:
Why are persons
in natural therapy never stereotyped and classified by means of psychiatric
labels?
Because human beings are unique; their minds and spirits are much too
complex and individualistic for that kind of naive oversimplification.
Troubled human beings do not need just to
be classified and labeled; they need to be treated with utter
respect for their uniqueness.
Emotionally troubled and
perplexed human beings must always be treated humanely
and compassionately.
They must be
given gentle encouragement, and afforded steady
promotion of their resilience and natural powers to heal themselves.
They certainly do not need the labels of mythical "mental
illness" (e.g. The DSM
series) which are really "accusations" that can deprive them of their human,
civil and legal rights.
They certainly do not need to be
arrogantly "accused" of
"mental illness" under the guise of being medically "diagnosed."
Such
"accusations" are too often part of the totally immoral process of "incarcerating" them in
"mental hospitals" and subjecting them to forced drugging,
electro-shocking, and
worse.
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3g) From Passive Patient to Active
Self-Healer
In non-drug psychotherapy people are made
psychologically stronger by learning how to use problem-solving
solutions that last.
* * *
Rather than being told to
rely passively on psychiatric medication for life, they are shown how to change their life style,
how to make better and healthier choices in life and
relationships; how to get better and stay better.
They learn how to use their inner
strengths and become their own healers for the rest of their
lives.
* * *
How?
They are coached on
how to attain life-long mental health, physical health and
spiritual well-being by learning how to avoid toxic aspects of their
environment in the best ways.
How to exercise and
have healthy physical activities on a regular basis. (e.g.,
walk, run, do physical work, get involved in aerobic, stretch
and weight exercises, learn meditation, focused and spiritually
uplifting breathing, yoga, kung fu, regular dance or form-free
dance, etc.)
They learn how to improve
their diet, how to live in over-all
healthier ways, how to develop better life styles, greater
awareness, and greater clarity of thought and purpose.
They learn how to discover, and
actually choose to practice,
realistic and workable ways to enhance their own well-being and the well-being of others
and the environment.
* * *
In natural
therapy people learn that when they are anxious, panicky, troubled, depressed, etc. they, of course, produce natural chemicals in their bodies that are harmful and
that upset them even more.
However,
when people learn to live a balanced, healthy and
productive
life their bodies naturally produce chemicals that make
them feel good and that enhance their well-being.
Psychiatric or
street drugs don't truly help! They may make one
temporarily feel better.
Learning
how to live a healthier, more productive
and balanced life and having good, fulfilling, positive
relationships always helps! And not temporarily, but on a
long term basis. * * *
3h) The Central Approaches of
Natural Therapy:
The approaches
that are always focused on in natural therapy are the
following:
Learn
how to choose and get
engaged in a way of life that you
value and that you find emotionally and spiritually
satisfying.
Become
involved in goals and relationships that you find
morally worthwhile, that you desire from your heart
and the depths of
your soul!
Learn
how to help your true spirit come fully alive!
* * *
(To
find out how to make your spirit come alive by making "good"
choices in life, choices that actually work, please click
MAKING LIFE CHOICES
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4. IN ADDITION TO THE AIMS
MENTIONED BEFORE, WHAT ARE
SOME OF THE OTHER AIMS OF NATURAL PSYCHOTHERAPY?
In addition to helping you resolve
your problems, the main aims of natural psychotherapy are to enable you to
value and respect your complexities and to develop your ability to
change for the better.
This holistic treatment always aims to enable
you to achieve
self-actualization and actually choose the "good life."
This means that in this
natural therapy you learn how to
change certain specific ways of how you have been living.
You become empowered to attain the actualization of your
freedom, the fulfillment and growth of your uniqueness, your
strengths, your spiritual strivings, your interests, and your
true, ever-changing and adaptive self.
And beyond that,
other important aims are to enable you to use natural psychotherapy to actually become more
creative, more productive and help you live well.
The over-all aim of natural
therapy is to show you
specifically how to
bring more emotional and spiritual satisfaction, more happiness and more joy into your life.
What Natural Therapy Can Help One Accomplish
In the
course of resolving your problems, this
very practical therapy
can
show you how to:
(1) be in charge of your relationships and life in balanced,
productive ways
(2) eliminate
self-defeating unconscious habits and automatic reactions
(3)
achieve what is meaningful and important to you
(4)
bring more love
and joy
into your daily existence
(5) attain and then maintain comprehensive (physical,
emotional, spiritual) well-being
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5.
HOW DOES NATURAL THERAPY
ACTUALLY WORK?
5a.
IN NATURAL THERAPY THE FOCUS IS ALWAYS ON NATURAL SELF-HEALING,
SELF-REALIZATION AND THE ATTAINMENT OF
SATISFYING RELATIONSHIPS AND THE GOOD
LIFE.
HOW?
Natural psychotherapy works by being
not only a psychological talk-therapy but
also a psychological
action-therapy.
Its
truth-seeking, jargon-free and down-to-earth approaches
work for all ages.
People learn - one day at
a time - to
live in better ways. Ways that maximize
self-actualization and the attainment of greater happiness
by natural means.
And as that happens they get to feel better -
not just once in a while, but on a regular basis.
The focus of this evidence-based treatment is
a workable integration of
both - constructive in-depth talk and constructive actions:
The Talk Therapy
The talk-therapy involves:
(1) in-depth,
natural conversation
- a collaborative search by means of straightforward,
honest, open and bold dialogue
(2) creative brainstorming for constructive, new,
completely original solutions.
And the
therapeutic atmosphere that always fosters
such talk is one that is positive, patient, gentle,
calm and thoroughly realistic.
The aim of
such collaborative conversations is always to
understand, in depth, what really is going on and has been going on in your life.
And
especially to get to understand - through
constructive conversation - what you really want to be going on in the
future. And how - realistically - to
attain that kind of future.
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The Action Therapy
The
actions-therapy
involves your actual practice of actions, behaviors and ways of
thinking and communicating that you find truly constructive.
This change to the truly
constructive and positive happens when you choose to put the insights you have gained through
your therapeutic conversations into the practice of your everyday behavior
and relationships.
This means giving up old destructive
patterns of acting and of communicating you may have learned (and over-learned) in
childhood.
In natural
actions therapy, you learn to become bold
and actually try out the completely new and more productive
ways of behaving you have evolved in the natural talk therapy.
That the constructive new ways actually work is
totally surprising to those in
whose family background either one or both parents were
authoritarian, dictatorial, angry, moody and abusive.
* * *
Research
findings indicate that the very doing and practice of
constructive, honest and responsible talk and actions speeds all three: biological, psychological and
spiritual healing processes.
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The way feelings change in natural therapy:
As people
become
progressively freer and empowered to think clearly and to act
positively and constructively, their feelings start to change.
Though they may feel strange or guilty when
they start to act in ways that primarily consider their own needs, goals and
preferences, these negative feelings get to become less frequent and less
intense over time.
After people practice constructive and positive
actions and constructive ways of communicating with others on a
regular basis,
they gradually get to feel better each day.
At the beginning, they may feel
guilty for taking care of themselves primarily and not putting
others first.
But over time, they stop feeling
bad or guilty and actually feel good when they truly take care
of themselves. They find that then they are in a better and
stronger emotional state to take care of others also.
They discover that it is only after they act and
behave in constructive ways, that they can start to feel more comfortable being themselves.
They thus discover that feeling better
is a product of acting better!
Their own
well being and their relations to others
improve.
They become more optimistic,
and simultaneously more realistic.
Wishful thinking gradually
looses its attractiveness.
They give up seeking the
non-existent "quick fix," the "escape" from logical thinking.
Despite a feeling of resistance to want
to give up old, and by now automatic patterns of damaging
behavior, they are willing to try new ways of searching for and
actually attaining states of natural happiness and well-being.
They become
more assertive in positive and constructive ways.
They
learn how not to be mistreated,
not be a victim, and not be involved in abusive relationships -
either with themselves or with others.
As a result, they become less frustrated, less unhappy with
themselves and less fearful, less depressed and less anxious.
At the same time (because they become less
frustrated and spiritually more fulfilled) they
become less hostile, less abrasive, less fault-finding, and less belligerent or antagonizing.
They
thus learn how to differentiate among withdrawal, hostile relationships and
assertive ones.
Each person learns how to separate her or his
authentic
values from her or his inauthentic values.
One learns how to pursue and live by
one's authenticity.
And as people start to feel more authentic and
real, they get to feel more and more self-empowered, and to feel
more free to express their uniqueness and creativity.
They also gain the desire and the power not to be
victims of their own blind and destructive impulses.
And then, they
can become more caring and more able to create and work toward the
kind of self, the type of relationships and the kind of environment they truly value.
5b) HOW TO ACCOMPLISH ONE'S GOALS:
To accomplish these goals,
natural psychotherapy has evolved an
eclectic, yet unified and holistic treatment approach that is deeply influenced by the findings and principles
of ecopsychology.
The approach is
bio-psycho-social,
interpersonal, cognitive, spiritual, and psychodynamic.
It is centrally a
humanistic and humane treatment that is
an effective alternative to the ineffective and harmful psychiatric drugging
and other invasive biological techniques of psychiatry.
5c)
THE INTERPERSONAL AND PSYCHODYNAMIC PERSPECTIVE:
From the interpersonal viewpoint, natural therapy regards human experience as
always related to one's situation, interactions, and relationships.
And in its natural state, human experience is always suffused with culture in
all its aspects, be they social, linguistic, spiritual, traditional,
religious, historical, political, economic, legal, etc.
* * *
In natural psychotherapy
people start to explore both conscious and
unconscious influences on their everyday behavior, and
especially on their emotional reactions to events.
They start to see that what they feel and do
is always related to what has come to be called
psychodynamic
influences.
This simply means that the nature of the relationships one has
with oneself and others is influenced by aspects one is aware of and also
aspects one is not aware of.
And through greater
self-understanding one comes to see how totally unconscious influences have their roots in one's
present psychosocial situation as well as in one's past.
And once one explores how that happens, one's problems become much more
understandable and, subsequently, more manageable.
* * *
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5d) THE GOAL OF EACH THERAPY SESSION:
In fact, under the umbrella of such a
perspective, the purpose of every therapy session is to show one how to
become aware
of, and be able to use, one's inner freedom
and power to attain the good life - responsible, reasonable, fulfilling
and joyful.
And one becomes aware of the ways one may have
denied that freedom and unconsciously repeated self-deception, superstitions
and false ideas, self-defeating habits
of thinking and feeling, and self-harming
patterns of behaving and
interacting negatively and destructively with others and with one's milieu.
Throughout,
each therapy session is
focused on gaining self-understanding of one's own complexities as well as
of the complexities of the psychosocial situation related to
one's suffering.
The focus is on clear understanding of all the
complexities of one's choices.
One steers clear of "foolish choices"
and "quick fixes"!
One avoids the easy
"escapes and distractions" of blame, regret, drugs, anger, withdrawal, passivity,
irrational attachments, addictions and infatuations
- all of which are self-destructive acts that can prevent
self-understanding, self-growth and spiritual self-enhancement.
And during, as well as between sessions, the
focus is on clarity of vision.
One commits to put into actual
practice the productive changes in self-understanding and
self-growth which one has achieved.
One learns and practices
positive self-direction!
5e) EFFECTIVE TEAMWORK - COLLABORATIVE AND CREATIVE
BRAIN-STORMING:
What
open, natural, and positive dialogue really becomes when it works well is
effective teamwork.
The teamwork is effective
when both the person seeking therapy and the therapist work
together cooperatively and patiently on all the issues and problems a person
faces. Then such teamwork becomes a
naturally creative kind of joint brainstorming by
the person seeking creative solutions and the natural therapist.
Both
join - as a team - in the search for constructive, natural, healing solutions!
* * *
One of the many reasons such
brainstorming conversations have to be collaborative is
that you are the only one who really knows - even though you may not be
fully in touch with that knowledge - what your conscious and unconscious
perspectives and assumptions about life are, what your basic healthy goals
are, which human values you want to develop and foster.
* * *
And the natural psychotherapist is the one with the
know-how to enable you to become fully aware of that knowledge and use it
constructively.
* * *
You gradually learn to avoid potentially
destructive, or actually destructive ways of doing things.
For example, you become able not to focus
on changing others, finding fault with others or blaming others.
Instead, you learn how to
focus on carefully thought-out ways through which you can make
your life really better - physically, emotionally,
spiritually.
And as you
make your own life better in truly constructive and realistic ways you inevitably
increase your self-confidence and
self-reliance and become able to actualize your true self. And as you
keep doing that you start to feel better and better!
* * *
Your daily existence will become more satisfying as you keep on developing and
improving your own natural resilience, creativity and strengths!
* * *
And most important, you learn that if you want creative and really
constructive solutions, differences of opinions, of
perspectives and even of values you and your therapist may have,
are the beginnings of conversation, and never the end!
* * *
You learn the real value of
being honest, patient, and reasonable in working out your
differences with you therapist (and with others) in
constructive, moral and life-enhancing ways: constructive
conversation and clear thinking.
You learn how and why to continue dialogue for a reasonable length
of time before giving up having dialogue.
And natural therapy is the best
place to practice how not to stop therapeutic conversation prematurely!
Thus in natural therapy one learns - often for the first time -
the magic of kind, calm and reasonable conversation.
One learns how to explore, and
slowly get to truly understand,
the differences and disagreements one may
have
with another human being and how to use these very differences
constructively.
* * *
And this may be the hardest to stick to:
to practice, to practice and to
practice: To make sure that you truly come to see that the new ways
of life you are starting, really work and have been truly mastered by you.
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5f) LEARNING TO LIVE BETTER IS A SKILL:
Learning to live well and productively,
and in ways that you truly feel are responsible, is a skill like other skills,
only more complex. That is why it is so important to persist and prevail in
the open, totally honest therapeutic and natural conversations despite the time and
the effort they may take.
Your emotional concerns, upsets, and any psychological disabilities you may have
developed in the past, as well as the spiritual despair you may have
experienced, are seen as
transitional wake-up calls.
They are all experiences that can help
you finally to get rid
of misconceptions, of blind spots, and destructive patterns.
And as that happens, you
develop the ability to understand yourself better
and become more and more skilled in living well!
5g) WHAT TO DO WITH NEGATIVE FEELINGS:
Unpleasant and
distressing feelings,
when approached with curiosity and patience, are
always opportunities for greater self-understanding
and for positive reorganization of yourself and your relationships.
In
psychodynamic, analytically oriented therapies the analysis of these experiences are called
"analysis of transference" and they are always useful in natural therapy
also.
They are feelings and behaviors people transfer form their childhood,
their past, into the therapy experience.
"Transferred
feelings and behaviors" of course take place regularly
in everyone's life, but can be especially significant when an unconsciously feared
but important
break-through is about to take place. And to
understand them, makes it possible for
therapeutic progress to continue in constructive ways.
* * *
As natural therapy progresses you start to realize that with the knowledge and strengths you gained
through therapy, it is you who can become and stay responsible for
how you use your freedom to shape your life.
You learn to explore the
meaning of impulsive, anxious, or depressing feelings and not
just to follow them blindly.
You learn not to run away
from negative feelings but to use them to gain greater
self-understanding and self-empowerment!
* * *
If you wish a clearer and more specific explanation of
how natural psychotherapy actually works please click on
FREEDOM AND THE GOOD LIFE.
6.
HOW ARE MEDICAL
PROBLEMS DEALT WITH IN A NATURAL THERAPY APPROACH?
A person, of course, may have a specific medical disease, actual
medical symptoms, illnesses, or impairments that require
proper medical
evaluation, diagnosis and treatment.
Therefore, if
any concern about
an actual physical illness, impairment, or problem exists at the time one starts
or is in the process of natural psychotherapy, one should always have a physical
diagnostic checkup
by one's regular personal or family physician.
And
one should also, always, have a consultation with someone
who is expert (e.g. board certified diplomate) in the areas of one's concern,
whether it be an experienced specialist in cardiology, internal medicine, neurology,
endocrinology, pediatrics, geriatrics, otolaryngology,
ophthalmology, physiatry, or in any of
the various medical specialties that may be relevant to one's
concerns.
Competent, compassionate, expert medical diagnosis and treatment
should never be avoided when any concern about
physical illness is present!
Physical, medical disease or impairment always requires suitable medical diagnosis, intervention and
treatment.
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7.
HOW ARE CHEMICAL IMBALANCES REGARDED IN RELATION TO
LIFE PROBLEMS?
Do people develop chemical imbalances when
they get upset?
The answer is: yes, if you
mean adaptive chemical
changes as a result of the emotional and physical distress they experience
in their lives..
The body is
exquisitely sensitive to any kind of stress, even mild stress, and reacts
accordingly.
One's psychological problems in living
can therefore cause chemical changes, as well as
musculoskeletal and other physical changes.
Thus it is important to remember that
there is overwhelming research and clinical evidence that psychological experience causes changes
in body chemistry and physiology.
However, research shows that
generally it is
not the other way around: that people have "mental diseases" or
"genetic defects" that cause their psychological problems.
When
their psychological and social problems are resolved, so is
their mental upheaval and suffering.
Thus drugs do not eliminate the psychological and psychosocial reasons
that caused the chemical changes in the first place !
* * *
And furthermore, the crude "treatments"
by means of psychiatric drugs not only can have serious and
damaging side-effects, but also tend to impair the mind's and body's
natural healing and reparative responses to stress.
So what is one to do if told by a
"professional" that one has a chemical imbalance not related to one's
psychologically upsetting situation? If that happens, one should
always ask what
specific laboratory tests one can take to demonstrate and determine exactly and clearly what
the imbalance is.
* * *
And remember
this:
No
medical examinations or laboratory tests exist
showing that chemical imbalances precede mental distress!
Not even one!
There are no laboratory tests
or medical findings in
existence today that can point to actual medical and laboratory findings with regard to
chemical imbalances causing
mental problems, as exist with other problems such as diabetes, TB,
cancer, infections, actual vitamin or mineral deficiencies, etc.
* * *
And one must not forget either
that psychiatry has promised definitive medical tests for
"mental illness" for over 150 years. And it has still not
delivered!
* * *
Why?
Because, as Thomas Szasz M.D., has so clearly pointed out in his many books: the
task of finding such tests is hopeless.
This is so because the very idea of "mental illness" is
a mistaken idea, a myth.
Or, to put it more
bluntly - a
false idea, a completely erroneous idea.
Actually, the idea of
mental illness is a delusion
of psychiatry.
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8.
HOW DOES NATURAL THERAPY VIEW MIND-ALTERING
STREET DRUGS AND PSYCHIATRIC DRUGS?
(a) The choice:
Whether people choose to take or not to take mind-altering
drugs relates to the culture, religious influences and laws under which they live.
All, of course, should arrive at the
choices they make regarding the use of mind altering drugs in well-informed
and carefully thought out ways.
In a democratic society probably the less the government
actively interferes with, prohibits or punishes such behavior the better.
Thus people should have the legal right to take drugs if they choose to do
so, whether the drug is cocaine, ecstasy, Prozac, grass, alcohol, Xanax,
heroin, Zyprexa or any other
mind-altering substance.
But under no circumstances should they be
coerced, cajoled or pressured to take these chemicals!
And the reason for this is clear:
all mind-altering chemicals can have serious
and damaging side-effects.
Educated about these chemicals, YES.
Pressured or coerced to ingest them, NO!
(b) OK to start natural therapy while still drinking
or using mind-altering drugs:
Even though drugs may make it easier
to avoid dealing constructively with one's problems, experience over the past three
decades has shown that one can benefit from natural therapy even while still using
them.
Thus the use of excessive alcohol or drugs, whether one uses them out of choice, habit, because one is in the
process of weaning oneself off them, or because one is committed to their
use for recreational, tranquilizing or analgesic purposes is never a
reason not to start natural therapy.
It is always beneficial to
explore psychologically the pros and cons of one's risky life styles. And
it is always beneficial to explore specific ways to stop taking
risky drugs and chemicals.
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(c) Limited use of drugs in special
emergency situations:
In natural psychotherapy medication is hardly
ever used. And if a person wants it, it is used in minimal amounts in
order to reduce
acute upset in emergency situations.
However the emphasis always is on therapeutic dialogue
and therapeutic problem solving..
Constructive dialogue is encouraged and
reliance on alcohol and drugs is discouraged.
If someone is acutely distraught and
agitated, or in the throes of deep depression, tranquilizing and mood
altering drugs may be advised if
quick calming down is necessary and serious health or management crises
exist.
Clinical evidence demonstrates that a safe,
structured, caring, personal and compassionate therapeutic environment is
mostly sufficient
to bring about a general calming down.
But if a safe, loving, caring and
structured environment is not
available and potentially dangerous emergencies exist, psychoactive drugs are prescribed
by
someone who is
expert in, or at least congenial to, alternative, holistic medicine -
either a prescribing holistic psychologist, psychiatrist, internist, psychopharmacologist,
or psychiatric
nurse-practitioner.
Thus, in certain serious
emergency situations, judiciously prescribed, limited use of
psychoactive drugs may be of help on a temporary basis. The
individual's safety, welfare and well-being are always of prime
consideration.
(d) Response to drugs varies:
Some individuals respond very
quickly (even in minutes or hours) to psychotropic medication. Some respond slowly,
over weeks. Some don't respond to drugging or medication at all, or
respond minimally.
Prescribed mind-altering drugs can thus be of help in jumpstarting someone into
psychotherapy or in helping them overcome an acutely disturbing transitional
episode.
Once some
stability has been achieved, the
tranquilizing or mood altering drugs are used to the minimal degree necessary
to maintain focus on the psychosocial issues that caused the emotional
disturbances and upsets in the first place. This is
done also in consultation with those professionals familiar with the person's psychosocial
and medical history and background.
(e) The focus in natural
therapy is always on one's natural healing
powers:
In natural psychotherapy
one focuses on the organism's natural ways of healing, on its
natural inner healing powers and resilience. These natural
powers to heal oneself are consistently encouraged and
stimulated in natural psychotherapy.
It is self-empowering to go through the process of
natural therapy since one gradually learns how to make use of the
hormones and chemicals naturally produced by one's own body.
And yes, one's naturally
produced hormones and chemicals can always
be relied on to help
one feel good. And they are completely harmless!
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9.
WHAT IF ONE HAS BECOME
HABITUATED TO MIND-ALTERING
DRUGS?
In the event one has become habituated
to street drugs, psychiatric drugs, or toxic levels of alcohol, it is not
advisable to stop impulsively or abruptly since some people have very
serious negative physical and psychological reactions if they do so.
Some
of the prescription drugs are far more addicting, damaging, and habit forming than many
biological psychiatrists and psychopharmacologists are willing to admit.
If one decides to stop excessive
alcohol or excessive taking of prescription
or non-prescription drugs, it is important to wean
oneself off carefully, slowly, and always with the help, the planning and
the guidance of caring, responsible, knowledgeable, and experienced professional clinical support.
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